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dangermousieI finished Devil Beside You last night but forgot to post about it.
It definitely is the cheesiest dorama I've seen. I don't know if I'd rec it as I didn't care for the lead couple (but the leads are cute and have good chemistry) and it had some moments I really liked and some that didn't work for me at all. Too OTT for me, generally.
I ended up really not rooting for Meng/XY, which considering they are the OTP of the show, is rather bad. I liked Meng well enough (though he was always a bit on the bratty side) until last ep, but when he decided to go to Italy with his Mom, I entered into a state of Meng hate from which I didn't emerge so it kinda ruined the thing for me. I have no problem with his wanting to go off and try to live with and get to know his Mom. He clearly has mother issues a mile wide, since not only did she seem to prefer Rang when they were kids, but she also left him after the divorce. Actually, I love the whole dinner he and XY go to with Mom. Meng is completely on edge and walks out all angry but then ends up breaking down in XY's arms, sobbing 'I really wanted to see her' as she tells him to hug her tighter. So yeah, even though he pursued XY and promised her they'd be forever together, I don't have a problem with his wanting to go to Italy.
What made me do the borderline hate thing is HELLO! Go to Italy. Get to know your Mom. But tell XY you'll come back for her, ask her opinion, tell her to wait! Don't announce your decision as if it involves no one but you, don't tell her that maybe you'll come back but maybe not (when all she is asking is to have reassurance that you'll come back to her). That just makes you a horrible jerk. Have your identity crisis all you want, but since it turns you into a selfish bastard...
If all you say is 'sorry,' it's smackdown time. I think they were trying to go for the whole 'he wants to keep her free and not have to wait for him' thing (that's why they had him tell her to be independent and tell her that he won't tell her to not fall in love with anyone else, but just ask as his right to let him love her all is life), but if so, they didn't do the greatest way of conveying it, because by the time I figured that out, I already entered my loathing phase and it was hard to snap back.
I guess the thing I liked least about the lead ship is that he was always in control and she was a dishrag. They weren't equals. And she had to work for him a lot. I don't mind when that happens in doramas that a girl has to work for the guy. But then it has to be a turn-around and the guy has to work for the girl. Both have to sacrifice for each other. He has to do things to keep her etc etc. Doramas like Full House understand that. Mars and Meteor Garden are yo-yos of that kind of emotional shift. Heck, even the secondary couple in this (and my favorite) has this dynamic going, where she is the one who is in love with him first and asks him out and brings him out of his funk etc etc, but he goes spectacularly to bat for her later. But not the main OTP.
I didn't have much sympathy for his angst, as it was self-inflicted (if he doesn't want to go, he doesn't have to).
I do have to say, that the sex scene and the morning after scenes were totally adorable and funny and cute and everything and when she wants to put on her clothes and tells him not to look and he tells her 'I saw it all last night' I cracked up. And then he throws her clothes far across the room and there is more sex. Heeeeee. Made me temporarily overlook the weird u-turn in the plot (see above). Smart TPTB.
His Mom is dreadful. Fancy telling a kid it's his fault she is stuck in a bad marriage.
Much as the main OTP annoyed me, the secondary OTP, Yuan Yi and Qing Zi, made up for it. XY should have stuck with YY because IMO she traded down.
I love the bit where QZ (who is forced to emigrate with her family and knows these will be her last days with YY) makes him take her to his apartment and tries to 'seduce' him but it's clear she is not ready and is forcing herself so he stops her (even though he wants her badly) and tells her 'even good guys have limits, so don't seduce me any more, OK?' and so she just falls asleep in his bed, after asking him to tell her fairy tales and when he tells her he is bad at stories, she tells him 'just tell me the endings' and he does, one after the other, and it's very sweet.
And then he finds out her father is taking her away (and he steps in front of her when the father is going to hit her because they spent the night together. Hey, he protected her, but in similar circs, XY got hit. See why I prefer him?) And he comes to take her away at her house and he and her father have a kendo duel (yes indeed. This show is crack) even though he has no idea how. Bollywood would love this OTP.
And they end up together because they work together to defeat her father and they live together and she makes him lunches and he thinks they are wonderful even though they aren't fancy, because she does them for him.
CUTE.
And he continues to be level-headed and full of common sense and just a good guy in all the ways that count. Should have stuck with him, XY!
It definitely is the cheesiest dorama I've seen. I don't know if I'd rec it as I didn't care for the lead couple (but the leads are cute and have good chemistry) and it had some moments I really liked and some that didn't work for me at all. Too OTT for me, generally.
I ended up really not rooting for Meng/XY, which considering they are the OTP of the show, is rather bad. I liked Meng well enough (though he was always a bit on the bratty side) until last ep, but when he decided to go to Italy with his Mom, I entered into a state of Meng hate from which I didn't emerge so it kinda ruined the thing for me. I have no problem with his wanting to go off and try to live with and get to know his Mom. He clearly has mother issues a mile wide, since not only did she seem to prefer Rang when they were kids, but she also left him after the divorce. Actually, I love the whole dinner he and XY go to with Mom. Meng is completely on edge and walks out all angry but then ends up breaking down in XY's arms, sobbing 'I really wanted to see her' as she tells him to hug her tighter. So yeah, even though he pursued XY and promised her they'd be forever together, I don't have a problem with his wanting to go to Italy.
What made me do the borderline hate thing is HELLO! Go to Italy. Get to know your Mom. But tell XY you'll come back for her, ask her opinion, tell her to wait! Don't announce your decision as if it involves no one but you, don't tell her that maybe you'll come back but maybe not (when all she is asking is to have reassurance that you'll come back to her). That just makes you a horrible jerk. Have your identity crisis all you want, but since it turns you into a selfish bastard...
If all you say is 'sorry,' it's smackdown time. I think they were trying to go for the whole 'he wants to keep her free and not have to wait for him' thing (that's why they had him tell her to be independent and tell her that he won't tell her to not fall in love with anyone else, but just ask as his right to let him love her all is life), but if so, they didn't do the greatest way of conveying it, because by the time I figured that out, I already entered my loathing phase and it was hard to snap back.
I guess the thing I liked least about the lead ship is that he was always in control and she was a dishrag. They weren't equals. And she had to work for him a lot. I don't mind when that happens in doramas that a girl has to work for the guy. But then it has to be a turn-around and the guy has to work for the girl. Both have to sacrifice for each other. He has to do things to keep her etc etc. Doramas like Full House understand that. Mars and Meteor Garden are yo-yos of that kind of emotional shift. Heck, even the secondary couple in this (and my favorite) has this dynamic going, where she is the one who is in love with him first and asks him out and brings him out of his funk etc etc, but he goes spectacularly to bat for her later. But not the main OTP.
I didn't have much sympathy for his angst, as it was self-inflicted (if he doesn't want to go, he doesn't have to).
I do have to say, that the sex scene and the morning after scenes were totally adorable and funny and cute and everything and when she wants to put on her clothes and tells him not to look and he tells her 'I saw it all last night' I cracked up. And then he throws her clothes far across the room and there is more sex. Heeeeee. Made me temporarily overlook the weird u-turn in the plot (see above). Smart TPTB.
His Mom is dreadful. Fancy telling a kid it's his fault she is stuck in a bad marriage.
Much as the main OTP annoyed me, the secondary OTP, Yuan Yi and Qing Zi, made up for it. XY should have stuck with YY because IMO she traded down.
I love the bit where QZ (who is forced to emigrate with her family and knows these will be her last days with YY) makes him take her to his apartment and tries to 'seduce' him but it's clear she is not ready and is forcing herself so he stops her (even though he wants her badly) and tells her 'even good guys have limits, so don't seduce me any more, OK?' and so she just falls asleep in his bed, after asking him to tell her fairy tales and when he tells her he is bad at stories, she tells him 'just tell me the endings' and he does, one after the other, and it's very sweet.
And then he finds out her father is taking her away (and he steps in front of her when the father is going to hit her because they spent the night together. Hey, he protected her, but in similar circs, XY got hit. See why I prefer him?) And he comes to take her away at her house and he and her father have a kendo duel (yes indeed. This show is crack) even though he has no idea how. Bollywood would love this OTP.
And they end up together because they work together to defeat her father and they live together and she makes him lunches and he thinks they are wonderful even though they aren't fancy, because she does them for him.
CUTE.
And he continues to be level-headed and full of common sense and just a good guy in all the ways that count. Should have stuck with him, XY!
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Date: 2006-09-02 05:28 pm (UTC)I am actualy perversely eager to see Love Contract now, because Mike He gets to angst in it a lot, and I think that's some karmic payback for Meng (yes, in my weird head it makes sense). But after I watch ep 5 of Silence (I've been putting it off because it's sort of like really nice chocolate, aka I don't get it often so I sort of anticipate each new subbed ep), I am going to continue with Tokyo Juliet (9 and 10 are now subbed). The complete series that I am going to marathon though is It Started with a Kiss. And then either Chun-Hyang or Sang-Doo, let's go to school (though after ALtK I think I need a longer angst break).
I am nevah evah watching 'Sorry I love you' because even though I believe it's very good, it's too angsty even for me.
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Date: 2006-09-02 06:17 pm (UTC)Whoooooo.
I love it, don't get me wrong, but it is quite the marathon. I think the reason I found it a little dragging is because Ariel Lin has a tendency to grate on my nerves. I don't know what it is about her, but I think I can only take her in small doses, which means I could never watch ISWAK for more than a few episodes at a time.
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Date: 2006-09-02 06:33 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2006-09-02 07:11 pm (UTC)she can be ridiculously stupid, especially in comparison to the male lead, which I find very difficult to swallow.
But isn't it the same situation in Goong? I just do the whole 'they compliment each other and he has such and such strengths and weaknesses and she has such an such different ones.' I don't know why, but it doesn't bother me...
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Date: 2006-09-02 09:05 pm (UTC)