Musings of the Obsessive Kind

But yes, I don't really like the plot setup that you're referring to either. I feel like it existed in Wuthering Heights, where I couldn't stand Catherine. Ruo Xi in BBJX in much more different. She's a bit indecisive about her love interests at the beginning, but once she makes a decision, she sticks to it until the end. She's also much more strong-willed and intelligent.