Jul. 8th, 2012

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I am in the middle of ep 14 but just wanted to post about something that has been boggling me - why are all the women so appalled at the thought that their boyfriend/wannabe boyfriend/husband may have a child and consider whether that's a ground for breaking up (except for Maeri, who seems to be the only sane one in this situation and wonders how she should raise someone this close in age but doesn't think of dumpage)?

Sure, it's a shock, but how anyone sane can hold it against a man that he slept with someone decade or more before he met you (since the kid is Do Jin's, this becomes even more ludicrous - Do Jin made a kid almost 20 years before he met Yi Soo) and that resulted in a kid he's never heard of until now (so there's been no deception of you by him)? I mean, are they expecting their 40+ yr old men to come to them as virgins? And accidents happen, even with best intentions and protection.

Not to mention that there isn't even an issue of having to raise a child when you thought you wouldn't have to - Colin is either 18 or 19, well past the age of minority, and has his own family.

So, seriously, WTF!

I swear to God, if Yi Soo dumps Do Jin because of that, I am going to think she is the stupidest woman who ever lived.
dangermousie: (Default)
I am in the middle of ep 14 but just wanted to post about something that has been boggling me - why are all the women so appalled at the thought that their boyfriend/wannabe boyfriend/husband may have a child and consider whether that's a ground for breaking up (except for Maeri, who seems to be the only sane one in this situation and wonders how she should raise someone this close in age but doesn't think of dumpage)?

Sure, it's a shock, but how anyone sane can hold it against a man that he slept with someone decade or more before he met you (since the kid is Do Jin's, this becomes even more ludicrous - Do Jin made a kid almost 20 years before he met Yi Soo) and that resulted in a kid he's never heard of until now (so there's been no deception of you by him)? I mean, are they expecting their 40+ yr old men to come to them as virgins? And accidents happen, even with best intentions and protection.

Not to mention that there isn't even an issue of having to raise a child when you thought you wouldn't have to - Colin is either 18 or 19, well past the age of minority, and has his own family.

So, seriously, WTF!

I swear to God, if Yi Soo dumps Do Jin because of that, I am going to think she is the stupidest woman who ever lived.
dangermousie: (Default)
I am in the middle of ep 14 but just wanted to post about something that has been boggling me - why are all the women so appalled at the thought that their boyfriend/wannabe boyfriend/husband may have a child and consider whether that's a ground for breaking up (except for Maeri, who seems to be the only sane one in this situation and wonders how she should raise someone this close in age but doesn't think of dumpage)?

Sure, it's a shock, but how anyone sane can hold it against a man that he slept with someone decade or more before he met you (since the kid is Do Jin's, this becomes even more ludicrous - Do Jin made a kid almost 20 years before he met Yi Soo) and that resulted in a kid he's never heard of until now (so there's been no deception of you by him)? I mean, are they expecting their 40+ yr old men to come to them as virgins? And accidents happen, even with best intentions and protection.

Not to mention that there isn't even an issue of having to raise a child when you thought you wouldn't have to - Colin is either 18 or 19, well past the age of minority, and has his own family.

So, seriously, WTF!

I swear to God, if Yi Soo dumps Do Jin because of that, I am going to think she is the stupidest woman who ever lived.
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Umm, why does the existence of a previously unknown about almost twenty year old kid whose mother is happily married to the kid's stepfather who raised him and who you've long gotten over, means Do Jin is breaking up with Yi Soo as it seems that somehow the fact that he didn't use protection (or did and it failed) two decades before he met her makes him unqualified to be her boyfriend or married to her or anything?! Wtf is this a Korean thing? Because whie this fact would certainly lead to a discussion within a relationship, how on earth this is grounds for dumping the woman you love due to unworthiness/inability to be her boyfriend?

I honestly don't get wtf Do Jin is thinking?
dangermousie: (Default)
Umm, why does the existence of a previously unknown about almost twenty year old kid whose mother is happily married to the kid's stepfather who raised him and who you've long gotten over, means Do Jin is breaking up with Yi Soo as it seems that somehow the fact that he didn't use protection (or did and it failed) two decades before he met her makes him unqualified to be her boyfriend or married to her or anything?! Wtf is this a Korean thing? Because whie this fact would certainly lead to a discussion within a relationship, how on earth this is grounds for dumping the woman you love due to unworthiness/inability to be her boyfriend?

I honestly don't get wtf Do Jin is thinking?
dangermousie: (Default)
Umm, why does the existence of a previously unknown about almost twenty year old kid whose mother is happily married to the kid's stepfather who raised him and who you've long gotten over, means Do Jin is breaking up with Yi Soo as it seems that somehow the fact that he didn't use protection (or did and it failed) two decades before he met her makes him unqualified to be her boyfriend or married to her or anything?! Wtf is this a Korean thing? Because whie this fact would certainly lead to a discussion within a relationship, how on earth this is grounds for dumping the woman you love due to unworthiness/inability to be her boyfriend?

I honestly don't get wtf Do Jin is thinking?

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