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Congratulations, In Ha, you are well on the way to winning abuser bingo:

1. Treat woman you 'love' as a thing to do with what you will, her wishes irrelevant.
2. Kiss her against her will. That's molestation, dude!
3. Try to buy her with offers of jobs, money, paying for her studies. She is not a hooker.
4. Try to control her by threatening harm to her loved ones - only an abuser would tell her "If you go to Ji Ho, I will kill him" as a means of trying to keep her by your side. (Luckily, Dami is sane and tells him to (politely) fuck off.
5. Want his mother to have her hired as his secretary so (I quote) "I can harass her." During same speech, inform Mom that Dami's feelings are immaterial as long as she is by him, and he will enjoy harassing her, and that he will eventually get her when Ji Ho has nothing because no woman would stay by a guy who has nothing. (Ummmm, dude, Dami came from poverty, I don't think living with someone without cash is new to her).
6. Possession is what matters, not feeling (he is fine with having a woman who only picked him as a last resort for money. In fact, that's his plan).

If he someone did get her, I can see this progressing to his locking her up, forbidding her to have contact with any friends/family and beating her up when she steps out of line. Jin Se Yeon tends to attract utter psychos as secondary guys, doesn't she? :)

You are pretty much insane and should be locked up for the general good.

But then his Mother is an enabler - promising In Ha she will get Dami for him (Lady, he isn't five and Dami isn't the new train set he wants for Christmas!) and trying to get Ji Ho to dump Dami 'because your brother likes her.' (Which makes no sense - there aren't only two men left in the world. Even if Dami isn't with Ji Ho, doesn't mean she will pick In Ha. In Ha is a pretty off-putting choice even without Joo Ji Hoon's cheekbones being in the picture). Thankfully Ji Ho's reaction is 'WTF!' Though even Mother is realizing In Ha is off the rails and is exactly like his psycho Daddy whose In Ha-like actions made her life hell (how ironic. Ji Ho, whom she hates as her husband's representative, is nothing like that).

In Ha being his insane self:

Ji Ho/Dami cuteness...

Mommy being insane and asking JH to dump Dami for In Ha's sake. Because all that psycho needs is encouragement.

Yeah, classic abuser thing. Luckily she doesn't give him an inch.

Yeah, when even your enabler thinks you are going too far, maybe you should stop.

Why so cute?

Not playing psycho's games.

Instead being adorable with his badgering to call him oppa and her taking him to see her Mom. And she texts him 'oppa' the morning after. And they have a date!

Date: 2012-10-01 05:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elanatothemax.livejournal.com
LOL, this dude doesn't sound charming enough to be an abuser. He just sounds like a crazy stalker.

Date: 2012-10-01 11:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dangermousie.livejournal.com
Well, he didn't start out too bad, he descended into lunacy.

Date: 2012-10-01 09:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cahya ningsih (from livejournal.com)
Jin Se Yeon tends to attract utter psychos as secondary guys, doesn't she? :)

Shunji, right? :)

I know, their crazy obsessiveness is similar. But IMO, I feel for IH more. Because with SJ, since the beginning even when he still a nice and caring person, I already feel that his feelings toward MD were only rely on their past, the admiration and first love. Their interactions before he crossed to evil dude were almost nil, he didn't know anything about MD present state. Plus it didn't help that I didn't find any chemistry with PKW x JSY while on the other hand JW x JSY has much sparks.

On the other hand, IH already interested in DM since their first adult meeting when she played piano at restaurant, even before he knows her identity. And they actually do interacts and spent times together as good friend for some time before he crossed the line (they talk often, play piano together too. I esp. love when they went shopping and then ride on cable car. I realized she had so many shopping bags in her hands and sit so comfortably with him in his luxury car). That means she enjoys being with him, until the point that she didn't even mind he bought her many things. DM also tells IH it's not that she doesn't like him, it's just that she loves JH. Sigh, if only IH didn't blow up. And it also help that JCW x JSY indeed have great chemistry like some of you already pointed out, unlike PKW and JSY.

Date: 2012-10-01 11:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dangermousie.livejournal.com
In Ha is obviously not in the Shunji league (the latter was a war criminal!) but he really is not in a fit state to be anyone's boyfriend. I wish he'd go away, get therapy, and learn to stand on his own two feet without blaming others.

Date: 2012-10-02 03:51 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
what i'm afraid is when revenge-for-father thing come out, dami will actually buy it and walk in to IH's side ...

nooooooooo, PD-nim nooooo *angrymode*

Date: 2012-10-02 11:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dangermousie.livejournal.com
I didn't even think about it, but you are right, I can see that. Noooooo!


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